u/LilikoiSummer

I have found a number of would-be AP’s over the past couple of years … men I genuinely like, am attracted to, communicate well with, but for whatever reasons, it’s not going to work in proximity.

They all occasionally vent to me as to how hard it is to be a man who posts, but then I also hear about how men never expect their replies to be read either.

So I’m curious, for both men and women, if you are currently happy with an AP you found in this dark corner of the internet: did you post or reply?