u/Lillemalina

Image 1 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
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Image 3 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 4 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 5 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
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Image 8 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
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Image 10 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 11 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 12 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 13 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 14 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 15 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
Image 16 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.
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Image 20 — My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.

My gut says D, but I’m not sure whether I might be FN? I’m 6’0.

So I’m a bit unsure because I feel like I fit a bit both types.
I’m tall and lean, and have a good jawline but not extremely angular. I’ve done competitive swimming for a decade until end of high school and am still very active which might overpronounce shoulders. Outfit-wise I tend to prefer monochromic items over overly patterned ones except when it comes to long dresses, in which case they need to have a sleek line to compensate for the pattern. I generally steer away from overly stiff and structures fabrics and in maxi dresses tend towards flowing, soft materials like tencel or cupro.
I do love both a monochrome and a layered look, the layers however have to be flowy. I do like a ripped oversized jeans! I like oversized outfits and feel confident in them. I also have wild long and curly 2c/3a hair. I’m at a loss 🥲

u/Lillemalina — 8 days ago

I’ve finally embraced my weird and I feel so liberated - have some of you experienced a similar surge in self-confidence in your 30s and what was it like for you?

One of the most liberating parts of entering my mid30s (turned 34 in jan) has been leaving many societal shackles behind and just full on embracing my weird.
I’ve always been a fantasy-loving, fanfiction-reading kinda girl, but nothing in my “outer” life points to that: I’m an eldest daughter, an anaesthesiology resident and prehospital emergency physician with a GP specialty already in my pocket, am mother to a hilarious toddler, I love to party, to travel, serious adventuring, and am a mountain sports lover. I don’t know why but ever since graduating high school (where I lived myself out completely) I’ve sorta hidden the elven-loving daydreaming woman away behind my outgoing and driven personality. But recently I’ve started to let her out. I don’t hide my spotify anymore (it’s filled with my very varied, whimsical and epic tastes). I’m back to writing, and talk about it. But the most daring of them all: I’ve found a horseriding coach, and I’m about to take up sword fighting lessons, both of which 14-yo me would be absolutely giddy about. I want to teach my son that he does never have to hide who he is even if it might veer from the “norm”, and I want to be the woman little me would’ve been fascinated by. And it feels so wildly liberating.
Just wanted to put this post out there incase someone needs some encouragement. And if you’ve experienced something similar please share!

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u/Lillemalina — 18 days ago