u/Limp_Competition_512

my (now ex) bf ended an almost 2 year relationship over the fact that my ocd is so bad and he doesn't want to live like this in the future. he mentioned therapy like erp but i said i didn't want to because of how extreme and aggressive it is so i have just been trying to manage on my own. but he is not happy and this is a big reason. how do you move on from this? i feel like im broken and unlovable and wish i was just normal. if i knew it was affecting him to this point i would've started therapy already. even if i work on it now he is decided.

has anyone else ever had this happen, or did anyone find someone that is okay with this part of you?