u/Limp_Speech_1582

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negotiation stalemates. Can anyone relate? CA

My ex and I are at an impasse with some of custody rights for our 2 teen children. Neither of us will give and it has made things so hard. We are trying to avoid a trial because of the expense and pain. I want joint custody in all things involving the kids and my ex wants full medical custody even though we will share them physically 50/50. We have had separate roles throughout our 13 years and that has been a major role for them. We no longer have that same dynamic and I would like us to have an equal say. I am fully capable of handing those decisions and having those discussions and have been since we separated. Has anyone been through this or have any advice (We do have lawyers, it's just been really hard to get anywhere).

Thank you in advance

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u/Limp_Speech_1582 — 5 days ago