u/LiterallyImMeNotYou

Halfish year checkin

Before Jan 2026, I hadn’t gone a week without drinking for probably 10 years. Mostly drinking every day. Probably a bottle of wine a night.

I was terrified of my resolution this year - a month off. I was miserable the first 2 weeks.

Now halfway through this year I can honestly say it’s changed my entire year. After DJ I found myself drinking way less, and sometimes even choosing not to drink at times I normally would.

I did dry June just for the thrill of knowing I could (with 2 planned off days - still a huge win for me!). Next week I have friends in town and will be wasted the entire time GUILT FREE. Because being wasted is no longer a daily thing. It’s a chosen thing. And having choice feels really powerful. I can say no now, so saying yes has no guilt attached, if that makes sense?

I’ll never choose full time sobriety. But dry Jan actually made this year incredible.

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u/LiterallyImMeNotYou — 6 days ago

I decided to do Dry May and didn't even think about Cinco de Mayo - arguably one of the top drinking days of the year. But I did it!! I had 1 margarita mocktail (was mediocre) and then switched to sparkling water served in a highball glass with lime, and then went home at a decent hour.

How did your Cinco de Mayo go?

Also what is considered the big "drinking days" where you're from? In the states I'd say Cinco de Mayo, St. Patty's Day, Thanksgiving and Christmas.

u/LiterallyImMeNotYou — 4 months ago