u/Little-Flight2685

My bf says him going to strip clubs, getting lap dances, or watching strippers at bachelor parties is normal and now him AND his dad are calling me a “weirdo” for not wanting him to do it. He says it’s “normal guy behavior” and that if him and his friends go to a strip club one day, getting dances from strippers wouldn’t be a big deal. The thing is, I told him during the FIRST WEEK of our relationship that I consider stuff like porn, sexual content, and lusting after other women disloyal. We’ve been together for 2 years and now both of his parents argue with me over my boundaries instead of respecting them. Am I actually being unreasonable here or are they just blatantly disrespecting my boundaries

Last week I was 95 ibs, I’m 5’3 for reference and my dr told me I’m about 10ibs under so I ate over 1,500 calories a day and made sure to balance my meals and today I weighed myself and I’m 88 POUNDS. I feel helpless and like nothing works 🥺 any tips ?

I got into an argument today with my boyfriend’s mom about how watching porn is not cheating in her opinion, but I do think it’s cheating and I told my bf in the first week of our relationship that I had that belief and that if he didn’t agree that you didn’t have to be with me and he told me that it was fine, his mom started screaming at me abt how I was immature for thinking it was cheating and that I need to grow up, I tried to explain to her how different relationships have different boundaries and she almost got physical with me and kicked me out of the house.What are yalls thoughts?