u/Little_Square678

So I’ve 20F been dating this guy 20M for a month now and he asked if I wanted to sleepover at his house this weekend. Obviously I do but I still have accidents in my sleep and I do wear pull ups to bed so it is contained. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to hide it from him. It’s just such a vulnerable thing I’m not sure I’m ready to tell him yet.

Hi everyone.

I am looking for some advice…

A year ago I was raped by a guy who I thought was my friend and ever since then I have been scared of intimacy. This includes most forms except kissing for some reason lol. After a while of avoiding talking to men I have started seeing a guy I really like. He makes me happy and things are starting to get serious. Only problem is when we makeout and he starts touching my butt and my waist I start to panic. I stop kissing him and I try to laugh it off. He’s never asked me to do anything other than kissing but if things get serious I’m scared to tell him that I’m scared of sex because of my past rape. I was just wondering how other survivors were able to overcome this situation.