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Friends saying inappropriate things

hello all, first time posting ever on Reddit and I‘m not typically on social media in general so I apologize in advance to the moderators if I break any rules. I just feel like my friends have said a lot of inappropriate things over the years regarding my child’s diagnosis. The most recent (but not the most inappropriate) was that they told me that they’re not vaccinated their child. I have no issues with this as I know it’s their choice and everyone just wants to do what’s best, or what they think is the best for their kids…but I found it so inappropriate that they just told me. When I confronted them, it was met with me not understanding, even though I told them I didn’t care about the choice, just thought it was rude to volunteer that information. I feel like I should have just responded with “oh yeah definitely don’t. You don't want your kid to end up like moe right? That would be the worst fucking thing ever.” But of course that’s not how I responded…. I just want to know if I’m being too sensitive, because I’m ready to just cut it off. Like I said, this comment wasn’t even the worst thing said, but it just doesn’t seem like they’re ever going to understand, not that I expect them too, but I don’t expect the constant judgement. I thought once they had kids they would…but my child is 6 now and been diagnosed the last 4 years, they’re all having their first children and it doesn’t seem like they’re getting it.

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u/Live-Impact-1237 — 1 day ago