AITAH If I Continue On A Preplanned Trip If My GF Is Arrested At The Airport Due To Old Warrants?
SO IM THE GIRLFRIEND HES TALKING ABOUT!!! yes, a couple days ago I found out I had warrants i honestly didn't know about from the past I thought I had already taken care of. My response to him was, “I’m not sure what they are yet, but I’ll handle it.”
His response was, “Good, because I can’t have you getting arrested at the airport.”
So I asked him, “If I did get arrested at the airport, would you still board the flight?” He said yes.
I asked if he would take a later flight just to make sure I was okay, and his answer was no. His reasoning was that he doesn’t feel it’s his responsibility to take on someone else’s debt or situation.
What hurt me wasn’t even really about the money or the flight. It was what his response showed me emotionally. To me, your partner is supposed to be someone who makes you feel safe, loved, supported, and cared for during hard moments. Instead, I felt like I was completely alone.
It made me question where I truly stand with him because in that moment it felt like nowhere.
And to make things even crazier, the warrants everybody is so worried about turned out to be two old parking violations from 2024 and some random $25 ticket from Northville from 2023. That’s why I didn’t even remember them. I wasn’t hiding anything or running from anything serious — I genuinely thought everything had already been handled.