Should I get my 3yo evaluated? (Worried about labels vs. benefits)
Hi moms,
I’m trying to decide whether to get my 3-year-old son formally assessed for autism. I suspect he might be Level 1, but honestly, it doesn't seem to interfere with his daily life very much right now.
My biggest hesitation is the long-term impact of a diagnosis. I worry about him being labeled or bullied, and the fact that a medical diagnosis will be on his record for life. Part of me feels like it might be better to wait and let him make his own decision about an assessment when he grows up. However, I know he's at an age where early intervention is a big talking point.
For those who have been in a similar spot—or already have a diagnosed child—could you weigh in on the pros and cons? If your child was diagnosed around age 3, did it actually help them prepare for preschool/kindergarten, or did it just create unnecessary labels? I'd love to hear your experiences. Thank you!