u/LizzyLuluLily

"I can't make friends because I always end up falling for them." joke's on you, I don't even have any friends.

Don't get me wrong—this is mostly me making fun of myself. But I always find it a little funny when I see people say (and again, I'm not trying to downplay anyone else's experiences), "I can't make friends because I always end up falling for them."

It's funny because I'm 100% sure that'll never happen to me. And it's even funnier because, well... I'm demi, so in theory I'm supposed to end up falling for a friend, right? But once again... where are these friends everyone keeps talking about? 😂

Now for the not-so-funny part: I have a really hard time making friends. The whole concept of friendship feels so foreign and abstract to me that it actually makes it difficult for me to connect with other people. And yet, I used to sit with two or three girls in high school, and later in college ( i never considered them friends, nor did they consider me as a friend)

Anyway, for those of you who are in a relationship: how the hell did you meet your partner? Were you friends first? And if you relate to at least some of what I've said, how do you even make friends?

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u/LizzyLuluLily — 2 days ago