u/Logical_Mix_7688

Hola amigos, necesito consejo de parte de hombres, no tengo amigos hombres a los cuales pedirle consejo

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I had this situationship for a year on long distance, we didn’t looked for a relationship at the beginning, just after a lot of months we started wanting to meet each other, we matched in so much things it looked like the perfect person for me, he had a lot of potential
A couple of months we started talking about meeting
And some weeks before we started planning his trip to my country…
But the other day he said he will not be able to handle the long distance, I proposed ways to make it work but nothing seems to make him change his mind.
The next day I proposed me moving to study in his country and that I would be able to have the money in less than 6 months, it was realistic, he said he would think about it but still I should pretend it’s a no for now…
I don’t know if we will really think about it, if he is just making excuses cause he just don’t want to try, Im in love with him and im willing to fight for this and effort to try things work out, but he seems he doesn’t want that.
I feel Ive been trying to convince him and that just makes me feel worse, cause if he was really interested I shouldn’t have to convince him, and 6 months in long distance is not that much, specially traveling to each other in those 6 months…
My heart is breaking, I don’t know how to move on, if I should move on, if there is a way to try things work out.
Im not the kind of person who just quit when knowing I could regret for the rest of my life instead of trying to make it with the greatest person I’ve known…
I just can think “I wasn’t the greatest for him, and if he couldn’t handle 6 months that means he prefers to lose me for the rest of his life, I wasn’t worth the waiting a temporary time than loosing something like this…
Of course I know things couldn’t work even living together, that kind of things happen even in normal relationships, but we were the perfect match, perfect for each other, im in love, how could someone give up so easy to that? What should I do?