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I (22F) have been dating my boyfriend (23M) for about 7 or so months. He has been diagnosed with bipolar 2, ADHD, OCD, and hyperacusis which is an ear condition. He quit his job today and told me it was because God told him to. He worked at a different job for about 3 weeks prior to the one he left today and left for the same reason. I think he may have a little bit of religious psychosis as a result of his Bipolar. I don’t know what to do. I’m not very religious myself so his explanation for leaving his job makes me confused. He doesn’t take meds for his Bipolar or go to therapy. I want to be a support system for him, because I know he is struggling and his parents don’t really understand mental health and they think he is doing this stuff purposefully.

I feel like I need to give him the ultimatum of either meds or therapy or I will leave. I can feel my patience with him running thin and I feel horrible. He’s a great man and he doesn’t treat me poorly. It’s stresses me out when he doesn’t have an income tho. I talked to him today and he kinda just said that I need to trust him, and that God has a plan. Idk. I love this man and I don’t want to leave but I feel like I have to.

I’m just venting but if anyone has any advice they’d like to share, or anything, that’d be greatly appreciated.