Dating advice
Hi all just curious (this is a question mostly for women. But I guess men can chime in too)
25F have been trying to seriously date for the last 1.5 years almost 2. Cut all flings off and started fresh Back in 2024. Went to therapy, still in therapy and a therapist myself just because I think there is things I can always work on. however I always go back and forth of a few things, in my head if I am trying to find my husband and be willing and open to date for my future husband however I am also young and not in a real rush because life is to be lived. but what want to see how people who are dating/have dated and now are married or anything really about this. again 25F haven’t had sex in 2 years just because, been in multiple dates, multiple talking stages, and nothing concrete. Having casual sex isn’t what I want long term so I stopped because idk that was just a throught process hahah
do I A) stop dating and let him come to me? my problem with that is I do a lot of stuff solo not super approachable due to maybe headphones or I’m in my own little world and I would get off the dating apps too and no sex. have tried this approach obviously still single lol or B) date people/roster of men and see where things go ? or is that getting in the way
part 2. A) stop having sex complelty? as situationship and whatever they call it now can get in the way and distract or B) have sex obviously safely, because i am young should enjoy dating.
any opinions I guess im asking because am I wasting my years of prime dating not dating or what