AITA because I hesitate to live in another country?
Hi. This is my first time posting here. So here it is.
My SO had always told me that if we get married, we will live in his country. There is no direct flight from my country to his. I would take three flights and a train ride to reach his home.
My dilemma is leaving home entirely. I am concerned and worried if something happens to my family, I will not be there immediately. I'm afraid that if I am away and there is an emergency, I will be too late.
I have aging parents. I want to be there with they get old and take care of them. Taking them with me is not an option. My and my SO's culture is different as well as the language.
Having three flights to reach home would cost a lot and would definitely take time. I don't know what to do. I am willing to go with him, but I don't want to leave my family. So, AITA because this is the reason why I am hesitant to live in another country.
What should I do? I need advice.