u/Longjumping-Ask8882

A grim one but this seems to be the best place to ask reading other posts…. When did you know to call it a day?

I love her so much, but these extreme moods that are probably a 1/3 of the month are destroying me. Living in constant fear and walking on egg shells permanently, she quite often just reminds me that her moods and tempers are not directed at me Its just that I’m present when they happen. However considering we live together (no kids) it feels like I’m just some sucker who absorbs all of her problems and anger with no consideration of anything else.

I feel so drained and helpless from it all.