u/Longjumping-Code2283

Is it wrong to wipe your butt after using the bathroom now?

Serious question because apparently I missed an update somewhere lol. Is wiping yourself after using the bathroom not considered normal anymore?

I would assume most people are going to say, “Obviously you’re supposed to wipe yourself. Why would you even ask that?”

Well… apparently I needed to ask. 😂

I’ve been getting mocked over literally doing just that. When I go to wipe myself after using the bathroom, people have claimed that I’m “digging in my butt” instead of simply acknowledging that I’m wiping myself. It’s even gotten to the point where it seems like people are interested in catching a particular angle or moment that could make it look like something other than what I’m actually doing.

So if your first reaction to this question was, “Of course you’re supposed to wipe yourself”—thank you. That was my reaction too.

But on a serious note, this is also a reminder that it’s incredibly easy to take an ordinary action out of context and make someone look weird or embarrassing when that isn’t what was happening at all.

When I was struggling very hard and had no choice but to live in my car, I was consistently harassed and followed by people no matter the city, state, or parking lot. And it didn't even stop there when I was able to get a hotel room and lastly a place to call home. I was quiet and respectful, and when I had to quickly change or do hygiene because I cared about taking care of myself I was always being watched by someone, and even filmed.

Some people made it hard for me to find a safe place to stay because of what was being spread about me and information of what my vehicle was, making people hyper aware of where I was at all times. I even feared for my life because hotel room or not someone was always trying to break in or was outside near my area.

I'm not trying to bash anyone. It just feels like when I struggle the humiliation is normalized, as if I'm not allowed to or made an explain of. It literally ruined my life. I don't think I will ever be able to live like a normal person anymore because of the traumatic experience I had with this.

I wish nothing but to be normal and to live in peace.

The app or device they are using on me has the ability to see any and all movement I make in my own home. My neighbors are using it on me. My stalkers too. They also got kids involved and that crosses the line.

Why? It's to monitor everything I do. Their main goal is to catch me masturbating and other actions that they can use to humiliate me.

When my smear campaign started, the rumor was starting to lose credibility. And when it did, they got so desperate to prove themselves right that they have gotten people to monitor me with this stuff. It is obvious that they are sharing whatever footage they got too.

If you are reading this and know exactly what I am talking about and don't feel comfortable with posting it here- please reach out to me and send me a message. We can even discuss splitting the lawsuit settlement that will occur soon.

Please do the right thing.

I don't know how to get this target off my back that someone put on me from telling the truth about them. Someone falsely accused me from a viral video of doing disgusting, nasty things in public. Now I can't find that video after I publicly announced online I was going to unalive myself (they are watching everything i post). I can't move away. They either follow me there or they spread the rumors to that area so that someone can help them stalk me and the smear campaign continues on.

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Someone is manipulating people, adding additional false info to the rumors to hate me, stalk me, isolate me and violate me. I'm literally home all day everyday and yet somehow that still bothers people. They've made my existence a problem.

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I'm not even at peace in my own home. I have people who keep trespassing my property, illegally filming me in my home, people staying outside or near my property, they ask people around me what their relationship is to me, my own neighbors are doing the surveillance on me as well and its so frustrating. I can't even play video games anymore because after I changed my old online gamer tag some people STILL know who I am and call me by my old gamer tag.

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Before I had a security system setup, someone was entering my home either through the windows or garage door. They were even going as far as climbing on top of my roof.

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I have curtains, blinds, window film to get maximum privacy and yet somehow they are still able to "see" what I'm doing in my home.

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I can't seek medical help for this because my hippa rights are being violated too. There's no one I can turn to. A lot of people are involved from law enforcement, medical professionals, the elderly and even children.

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I am so exhausted. I'm tired of not really defending myself because I do not like confrontation and I definitely don't want it to backfire on me. When people do meet me, they get confused because of what they heard and observed is not adding up to the rumors.

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I just want to live a normal life and be at peace like everyone else. Please.