AITA for telling a girl her boyfriend had been flirting with me after she got rude with me?
I was at a friends birthday at a bar this weekend and there were maybe 10 of us, some people I knew and some I didn’t.
One guy there kept finding reasons to talk to me all night. Asking if I was seeing anyone, telling me I looked familiar, offering to get my drinks, eventually asked for my Instagram. I assumed he was single because he was being pretty obvious about it.
Later this girl came over and said you know he has a girlfriend right? in a really nasty tone. I said no, I actually didn’t. She goes well now you do, so maybe back off.
Turns out she was the girlfriend.
That annoyed me because I hadn’t approached him once, so I said maybe you should tell your boyfriend that because he’s the one who asked if I was single and asked for my Instagram.
Her whole expression changed and she asked what else he said, so I told her basically everything, including that he offered to buy me drinks. He immediately started saying I was exaggerating and that he was just being friendly.
It turned into this super awkward argument in front of everyone and they ended up leaving separately.
A couple people said I could've just apologized and left it alone instead of embarrassing her in front of the group.
I do feel kinda bad because she looked crushed once I told her.
AITA for outing him right there instead of just letting her think I was the problem?