u/Lostmy-Way

I came home after a trip for work. Poop 💩 everywhere, my aquarium was a mess with fish floating at the top ☠️, pwBPD told me the dog was missing behaving the whole time.
The home unkept.
It’s already a struggle to get my pwBPD to help around the house ( I’m the one who gets blamed and accuses of not doing anything FYI.)

Just looking for experiences.
I’m not looking for “escape “ “it will never change” ect.
I already know in my heart. Just looking for your stories.

So Ask LLP is lumping my LDS payout with my BSA payout🤦.
It was my understanding they are separate.
They already collected 40% on the LDS case, but since they are not separating the totals, it gives them an additional advantage of more money to claim.
Any one else in the church having this happen?

I’m confused. Chose Option C. They made me sign the hippa form. Now they are holding the lien, 30k.
They never put in writing that even if I put Option C, they will still take the lien money.
What was the propose?
UPDATE: Ever try calling Ask? They are a “small organization “ who only has 1 paralegal working at a time. But everyone’s 40% can’t afford another paralegal?

She told me she is gender queer. Our entire marriage I knew she had body dysmorphia, and that’s why she supported pride so much.

Last night she said she wanted to date other people of the same sex and have sex with women too. She hasn’t been able to experience that part of her life. She said it would be like her being in a relationship with 2 people and I could watch or participate.
That’s not me. No interest in more drama from another female in my life, to be ganged up on or manipulated.

I told her I support her as gender queer/ bi sexual. But if she dates someone else, I’m don’t want to be part of the marriage any more.
She already had an emotional affair with another dude at work, but she doesn’t see it that way. She just says she makes friends with men easier🤦. Oh, she is friends with the dudes ex wife🤷🏼.

I have Asperger’s (autism) and trauma, and I’m not the type to give up on someone, but I do have my boundaries.

Am I wrong to think dating and wanting to sleep with the same sex has nothing to do with identity in this context?

If she wants a gay partner then the marriage is over.

As we talked further, found out that she is lonely and I don’t giver her enough affection. So…