How to help my wife find a girlfriend?
My wife and I have known each other for about 15 years now, we are the same person but different genders. I have always known that she was bisexual and has had girlfriends in the past but it was never a topic that came up since we were already working on our own relationship. Flash forward to now however and we are happily married just living life and I told her since I know she is Bi I’d be completely fine with her enjoying the other side of her sexuality. I as a man obviously can’t provide to her what a women could so not only do I support her, I think it would be great.
We’re looking for a KTP type relationship, I’d like to atleast be friends with her partner and maybe even besties. The problem is, we have no idea how to go about doing this.
We’re on a few dating apps( no idea if they’re the right ones) and she’s gotten a few like but no one her type. How could I as her husband help her? She likes the idea of me acting as kinda a wingman letting other women know that she’s on the market but I’d really like advice on how to go about approaching that?
I’m not looking for anything more than a friendship from this person so maybe just being completely upfront would be the way to go but I don’t wanna jump the gun and ruin a possible relationship for her.
Any advice? I know every poly relationship is different but let me know what I’m doing right/wrong, also let me know if there’s something I/we’re missing.
Thank you!