"but what if your future husband wants sex?"

What about it? That isn't my problem. I have it specifically stated that I will not willingly have sex for any reason other than the conception of children, and even that, only under specific circumstances. He has to acknowledge and agree to that before there's a proposal, let alone a wedding. Women's sexual boundaries are not negotiable. Aces' sexual boundaries are not negotiable. His desires are not worth more than my bodily autonomy.

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