Women: what specifically makes sex great or memorable for you?
I’m a 31M and would love to hear women’s perspectives on what actually makes a partner great in bed. I’m looking for specific preferences rather than just “more foreplay” or “communicate.”
For example:
• **Foreplay:** What kinds of foreplay do you enjoy most (besides oral), and roughly how long do you prefer it before intercourse?
• **Touching:** Where do you particularly like being touched or caressed? Are there places you wish men paid more attention to?
• **Kissing:** Where do you enjoy being kissed besides the lips? Neck, shoulders, back, stomach, etc.? Slow/soft vs. more passionate?
• **During sex:** Do you like your partner continuing to kiss and touch you during penetration, or do you sometimes prefer less stimulation?
• **Positions:** Which positions tend to feel best for you, and what can a guy do during them to make them better? For example, during rear-entry positions, do you enjoy being held, kissed on the back/neck, or having your body touched?
• **Overall:** What are 3–5 specific things a man has done during sex that made you think, “Wow, he really knows what he’s doing”?
Obviously everyone is different—I’m just curious which answers come up repeatedly.