21F & 29M
In March 2026, I met a guy and since then we’ve been talking. The conversation has been really good, and it’s been 3 months now. We say “I love you,” do video calls, and he basically treats me like his girlfriend. He even claims me as his girlfriend.
I asked him if he wanted something casual, but he said no—he wants a serious relationship. I agreed because I want something serious too. The best part is, he treats me really well and communicates about his future, work, and everything.
However, we still haven’t met yet. I know his work schedule, and he seems busy, but he still manages to go on short trips with his friends to nearby places. But when it comes to meeting me, he hasn’t made it happen.
Now I’m confused. I’m wondering if he just wants me for time pass—like he enjoys talking but doesn’t actually want to meet in real life. He does say he wants to meet and that he’ll plan a date, but for the past 3 months, it’s only been words and no action.
Im 21 & he 29 , Most importantly, I don’t see any other women involved. He stays at home only and sleep all the time thn wake up for his office work and in the evening if he’s free thn only he go out side