u/Low_Yak_2337

How to learn that it's OK to not be the best at everything?

I have this problem where if I lose at something or someone is better than me, I just break down, start crying and give it up for a few days or months. Then I come back and the cycle repeats. I think it's because when I was a kid I was always the best at almost everything I tried. Now that I'm older there are definitely people better than me at things that I like to do, and it just ruins the fun for me. Especially if they're competitive activities like video games or sports.

I think it's hard for me to handle because I put so much time into something just to get destroyed by someone better than me. I just try and be happy for them and hide my sadness until I'm alone and let out all of my tears.

I'm sorry if I sound like a spoiled brat. It's something that I wish I didn't do. I just can't control it. Please help me. I need advice. Thank you :,(

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u/Low_Yak_2337 — 13 hours ago

What am I doing wrong that's making my accuracy so bad?

Look at the start. Even when it's simple I'm still only at like ~95%. What am I doing wrong?

u/Low_Yak_2337 — 5 days ago
▲ 113 r/antiai

Because once they become dependent on it, they won't be able to do things on their own. For example, coding. Once all the before-AI seniors retire, people won't know what the code the AI outputs will even do. They could ask it to clarify its purpose, but it could lie. The world will basically be controlled by AI if that happens. We're headed for a rough time. I'm very worried.

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u/Low_Yak_2337 — 19 days ago