A guy got fired today
A couple months ago, I was at a company event. It was in public and drinking was involved. Near the end of the event, one of the guys made a "joke" about how "marital rape doesn't exist" and that he "rapes [his] wife every day". Half the group was women and some of us were wearing company merch, with members of the public within earshot.
This guy is a certified rage baiter and has made jokes in the past about how he thinks it's funny to piss off his wife. At another company event, he told a female employee that he told his wife "even if she showed up at our door naked, you wouldn't have anything to worry about"???
This guy is also a big time dog fucker. He calls in all the time and fucks around when he doesn't show up. Despite all this, he asked for more responsibility. They put him in charge of an important task and he fumbled it to my detriment. I had to take over for him and figure out the mess he left and we missed a deadline because of it.
I was complaining to the PM about it and mentioned the comment he made. Within 10 minutes, the owner of the company called me to tell me the guy would be let go. He was horrified that some guys actually talk like that and didn't want anyone like that associated with his company.
I feel bad for the guy's family, but I'm really grateful that my company cares enough to do something about shit like this. I didn't expect them to fire him when I brought it up, but they took it really seriously and I'm proud that there's one less shithead on site.
I know I'm very lucky to have this support and that a lot of y'all don't have that luxury, but I think we should all keep fighting for this standard because it really is the bare minimum. It still deserves to be celebrated, but it's sad that it needs to happen at all. These dudes shouldn't feel comfortable enough to spew horrible shit without consequence.