u/Luke-and-Dogs

So recently, I was driving when Stone Temple Pilots played. I don’t really listen to their music but I remembered there was one song of their’s I really enjoyed. It was from their album with the baby riding the lion in the sky. The song had a funky guitar melody which really distinguished itself from the rest of the album (imo). But just now when I went to go look for the song, it genuinely wasn’t there. When I say it wasn’t there I mean it on some matrix level stuff. If anyone knows what’s up please tell me the name of the song 😭.

Real quick, I'm not great with reddit vocabulary so hopefully I met the requirements to post here. My account is a few years old so that should prove I'm not a bot.

Okay, so recently, my immediate family met for a lunch together, and for the most part it went well. There was one awkward moment with my sister however that has still been stuck in my mind since then.

My sister and I (male) were talking about various sport stars and how it is unfortunate that some of them were revealed to be horrible to women (I won't say exactly what for but you get the idea). I then brought up a female athlete and how she was recently revealed to have been bad to men as well.

My sister was quick to say she didn't believe it was the same situation as to the male athletes we were discussing earlier because she doesn't think men can be victims. I was taken aback by this, and asked her to clarify. I thought I miss heard her. She then stated again that she didn't think men could be victims. This made me feel gross because I never thought my sister would believe in something so wrong.

After she clarified, I told her about a time when a drunk women tried to kiss me at a bar. I was much younger and with my dad when it happened. My dad happened to be in the room when I told her this, and so I turned to him and asked him to verify it. He did, and my sister kind of just nodded. Here is where I want to know if I am the AH. I know my sister is an adult and can think what she wants, but I asked my dad to help me convince my sister what she believed was wrong, and that all people can be victims of harassment regardless of gender. I felt like my situation meant nothing to her. That's not a huge problem for me, but enough to where I recognize it.

I really would like to know because my sister and I have always been close, and I want to know if I should apologies or not.