u/LunaMasterMind

Hey people of Reddit. I seriously need some advice. My boyfriend keeps telling me my body isn't preferable and how him and his friends all agree I should start working out my ass cuz Im flat

I'm 57kg and 5'7ft tall. I am skinny and healthy and I believe Im fit too. I play soccer and hockey at least for 6 hours a week in total.

When me and my bf started dating he said he likes my body and had anime crushes on people with the same body type (I'm cringing like hell saying that)

But ever since a few months ago his preference completely changed and now he likes thick chubby girls with big ass and tits and makes it as apparent and he can constantly comparing me to anime girls. Hes such a fucking incel.

He says I have to gain 3kg now but he "loves me the way I am"

Yesterday we had a great call and were getting along great, like most days. Then he brought up my ass being too flat. He said how he works out for many reasons and one of them is to look good for me. Which is true and he has gained a lot of muscle since we started dating a year ago.

He said him and his FRIENDS spoke about it and I should start doing squats and stuff too look good for him.

I was angry but tried to hide it cuz last time he said I was overreacting when he called my nose huge and pointed it out on all my pics and I was mad at him for it. So I just decided to say goodnight.

I try realy hard to look good for him by doing my hair, skincare, makeup, dressing well aughh. And I actually like my body yk

But I want this to work out between us I'm just so angry at myself for not being good enough for him and him actually being right

What do I do

Jealous of my Bf's girl best friend

Hey, I've never made one of these before but I just really needed someone to talk to and to ask for advice.

Me (F15) and my bf(F16) have been dating a year. It's honestly going great I love him a lot and I'm sure he feels the same.

Over the months we've been together we've had a mutual friend I'll call Suzie. Suzie is a very pretty, funny, smart and unique girl.

The year before I joined the school and met my bf he had a HUGE crush on Suzie. But over time he realized he 'didn't have a chance' and moved on.

Suzie recently left the school and moved to another city. She barely contacts me anymore but she talks to my bf like every day about her problems and personal thoughts. She isn't like flirting with him though so I guess nothing is wrong

My boyfriend tells her about his sexual desires and experiences even before he tells me. And they call for hours and text.

What hurts the most is my bf told me a few weeks ago the reason why I'm not allowed to talk to him about personal things is because he doesn't want me to get attached to him and wants to keep me at a "friends distance".

He says he doesn't find Suzie attractive but he calls her beautiful and even on multiple occasions starred at her ass in front of me and made comments on how hot she is.

He says I'm too skinny for his preference and has never called me beautiful just cute.

I'm white and he's mixed and his parents are a little racist and therefore don't really like me. Suzie is mixed too though and his mom even offers buying her presents for him to give her

In comparison my bf has NEVER in our over a year of dating bought me anything other than a chocolate bar

Not for Christmas, not for my birthday, not for valentines, not for our anniversary

And money isn't even a problem at all he much richer than me

And ive bought him so much and made him things when I didn't have money

I just wish I could be good enough for him

Whenever I bring up sumthin like this he'd just say I'm overreacting and swear at me he's a great bf and I don't want to lose him what do I do