u/Luvystar

My bestfriend in med school since day 1 has been acting super weird since our latest exam. She's super sweet and kind and we get along well. We have a big difference tho in that shes more disciplined and hard working than i am, while i do the bare minimum.

Issue is our last exam scores were posted and everyone saw them. I scored higher than her but not by much, just 10% difference. after results came out, she directly told me shes very upset she got a lower score despite studying harder and longer than i do. That she deserved to get more than me because she put more effort. it was a mixture of being upset her effort didnt pay off and being weirdly upset at the fact that i got higher. I tried to reassure her but it only made things worse.

After that, her behavior toward me shifted. She became more defensive and more critical in how she talks to me. In conversations, she’s started saying things like I don’t have good work habits like she does, and no discipline and that I’d struggle or even get fired in future work situations if "I continue like this". When i asked her where this came from she told me shes just worried about me not showing up as much ( even though my scores aren't bad so i dont get it ).

She was never like this. In the 4 years we were together, ive never seen her as anything but kind and loving and supportive. I dont understand if its something i did or if its just stress from her own personal life.

Im sure alot of med students go thru something similar, if so how did you deal with it without losing the friendship? I appreciate all input, i really need outside perspective.

Genuinely how do we relax

is this jealousy or just stress?

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