Struggling in 7th month of separation
Long story short. 7 months since D day, 4 months since I kicked WS out, 44 years of marriage down the drain. I knew it was over the minute I heard of their second betrayal. I had forgiven the first. Never confronted. I just knew it happened and it was over after several years. But the second one showed me there was no hope.
Kids are grown anyway which is why I put up with the first affair, if indeed it was not the second or third..who knows?
I have now experienced the ups and downs with good weeks and bad weeks. Having a very bad month or more.
The thing that is bothering me is that I am in my 70s. So when people say, "time will heal". I wonder if there is time enough for me. I wonder how much time I have to build up positive memories after WS took away 44 years of positive memories from me.