u/Main_Review5198

Hello, I've recently pieced together that i'm an asexual, and it has put to bed a mystery that has confounded me for many, many years.

I think I've been going through life flirting on auto pilot. It's confused myself and a lot of people. I get creeped on by people of all genders, I just think I'm being friendly tbh. It's a surprise everytime.

Unfortunately it led to me being hyper sexualized as an asexual woman, and a lot of people have ganged up on me trying to figure out what my sexuality is etc. It's been an incredibly intrusive experience.

How common is this as an asexual experience? Does anyone have any advice on training oneself to turn this feature off? Lol