So my question is should i do the Thermae bath spa? The reviews are so mixed, I dont wanna waste time on something that could be crap but the rooftop pool looks the shit. I have booked the roman baths and dinner at sqyare for 6 we will leave at 9pm back to paddington. Si what are your thoughts?
Hello all
Just posting here cuz no one really to talk to at home or in the job. Pretty dyslexic, known since i was 10 had extra schooling that parents sorted but never had reasonable adjustments until starting this job. Have had some misunderstandings with my sergeants basically because my ability to retain information in short term memory is shit. I had my review with l&d and they mentioned it’s like I’m making things up, i explained overtaking is a mechanism to allow me time to recall something as my short term memory is shocking. But once i know it stays. They kinda had an aha moment, like we didn’t realize this, oh that makes sense, and basically advised me to carry a pad and take notes.
Now in CID and my team wanted me to go down to custody snd arrest for murder. I was told the details very quickly by people more informed than me. Basically I had a real problem with retaining the name of vic and sys. Kept asking my sergeants as i had no pad and he had it written done. He got frustrated that I hadn’t memorized it in one go. I was stressed as well as its a murder allegation and obv I don’t wanna get it wrong. Anyway at the end he checked i still knew the vics name which i did after some recall delay.
Maybe i should update my disability passport, i thought that stuff was still in there but knowing any sgt he prob never read it and doesn’t know or care about dyslexia.
My previous vct sarge got briefed and was quite understanding about it. I just worry now that if i cant absorb info in seconds and go do whatever and forget stuff my team is gonna be why is this tdc so crap. I usually dont mind working at my own pace but it seems the team is like you need to be an info absorber or you’re no-good to us.
Anyway just needed somewhere to write this as i didn’t really tell anyone including wife about the frustration l. In kinda wished i’d grabbed my PNB and will prob do that from now on to save any stress over having to remember a name. I also thought it was a joke to begin with which didn’t help.