Hi, My(M21) gf left me for another guy 4 months ago. just needing general support and advice .
Hey there the title says it all but about four months ago my ex cheated, ghosted me, and left me for another man. She ignored my messages up until last week where she called me preachy and told me how little she cares about me and how little she thinks of me.
Which when I mentioned what she did and how she was acting she switched up and said she cared about me and she is still dealing with the breakup?mixed signals lol
She consistently lurks on my profile and watches my actions. I won’t lie I do the same, I see her and the other guy play games online and other things. I guess she chose him over me.
It’s hard, I view myself as so ugly some days that I won’t even leave the house or hang out with my friends, the situation was so complicated
She played with my head and everyone around me was lying to me and screwing with me, this whole situation has left me crazy.
I miss the person I was before I met her, I wish I was smarter.
We use to live together? It’s crazy how it’s became this. I really just hope she realizes one day what she’s done and she comes back and apologizes, but I know that’s never gonna happen.