u/Maleficent_Cold5090

Hi all, I’m at 21 yr old male with a height around 5’10 and a weight around 250lb. I’m not on any medication and I don’t smoke and rarely drink. At the beginning of June I went on a vacation to visit my girlfriend for the first time and we went out to lunch and before we did I felt completely okay but as soon as I went to eat I instantly felt extremely full and thought I was going to throw up so I stopped eating after a couple bites.

Then for the rest of the day and about 2 days later I was having really bad stomach pain and constantly thinking that I was going to throw up but never did. After a few days I slowly got better and was able to eat more and more without feeling full as quickly and ended up getting back to normal.

Then 3 weeks later I went out to dinner with my family and the same thing happened to me again where I couldn’t eat and thought I was going to throw up but never did. I stopped eating after a couple bites and went back home and for the rest of the night had stomach cramps which I believe to be bloating cause it feels very tight around my stomach.

Since then I’ve been waking up with some stomach pain each day but then later on in the day I’m feeling completely normal again and don’t have anymore pain. This was 6 days ago since I went out to eat and wasn’t able to but each day I have less and less pain in my stomach but it’s still bothering me for a couple hours after waking up.

Part of me thinks it may be caused from anxiety because I was a little anxious when going to lunch with my girlfriend for the first time and when it happened the next time I was already feeling weird in my stomach and was worried that I wouldn’t be able to eat again.

I also want to mention that I’ve recently been working overnight shifts which is messing up my sleep schedule and because I have no food to eat while working I’ve ended up doordashing food almost every night and eating really horribly which I’m planning to fix.

I haven’t had any sharp pains or any pain on the lower right end of my stomach so I don’t think it’s appendicitis and I’m still able to use the bathroom perfectly fine so I don’t think it’s a blockage or anything but I would love to get some help on this and see what people think it could be.

Hi all, I’m at 21 yr old male with a height around 5’10 and a weight around 250lb. I’m not on any medication and I don’t smoke and rarely drink. At the beginning of June I went on a vacation to visit my girlfriend for the first time and we went out to lunch and before we did I felt completely okay but as soon as I went to eat I instantly felt extremely full and thought I was going to throw up so I stopped eating after a couple bites.

Then for the rest of the day and about 2 days later I was having really bad stomach pain and constantly thinking that I was going to throw up but never did. After a few days I slowly got better and was able to eat more and more without feeling full as quickly and ended up getting back to normal.

Then 3 weeks later I went out to dinner with my family and the same thing happened to me again where I couldn’t eat and thought I was going to throw up but never did. I stopped eating after a couple bites and went back home and for the rest of the night had stomach cramps which I believe to be bloating cause it feels very tight around my stomach.

Since then I’ve been waking up with some stomach pain each day but then later on in the day I’m feeling completely normal again and don’t have anymore pain. This was 6 days ago since I went out to eat and wasn’t able to but each day I have less and less pain in my stomach but it’s still bothering me for a couple hours after waking up.

Part of me thinks it may be caused from anxiety because I was a little anxious when going to lunch with my girlfriend for the first time and when it happened the next time I was already feeling weird in my stomach and was worried that I wouldn’t be able to eat again.

I also want to mention that I’ve recently been working overnight shifts which is messing up my sleep schedule and because I have no food to eat while working I’ve ended up doordashing food almost every night and eating really horribly which I’m planning to fix.

I haven’t had any sharp pains or any pain on the lower right end of my stomach so I don’t think it’s appendicitis and I’m still able to use the bathroom perfectly fine so I don’t think it’s a blockage or anything but I would love to get some help on this and see what people think it could be.

Hi all, I’m at 21 yr old male with a height around 5’10 and a weight around 250lb. I’m not on any medication and I don’t smoke and rarely drink. At the beginning of June I went on a vacation to visit my girlfriend for the first time and we went out to lunch and before we did I felt completely okay but as soon as I went to eat I instantly felt extremely full and thought I was going to throw up so I stopped eating after a couple bites.

Then for the rest of the day and about 2 days later I was having really bad stomach pain and constantly thinking that I was going to throw up but never did. After a few days I slowly got better and was able to eat more and more without feeling full as quickly and ended up getting back to normal.

Then 3 weeks later I went out to dinner with my family and the same thing happened to me again where I couldn’t eat and thought I was going to throw up but never did. I stopped eating after a couple bites and went back home and for the rest of the night had stomach cramps which I believe to be bloating cause it feels very tight around my stomach.

Since then I’ve been waking up with some stomach pain each day but then later on in the day I’m feeling completely normal again and don’t have anymore pain. This was 6 days ago since I went out to eat and wasn’t able to but each day I have less and less pain in my stomach but it’s still bothering me for a couple hours after waking up.

Part of me thinks it may be caused from anxiety because I was a little anxious when going to lunch with my girlfriend for the first time and when it happened the next time I was already feeling weird in my stomach and was worried that I wouldn’t be able to eat again.

I also want to mention that I’ve recently been working overnight shifts which is messing up my sleep schedule and because I have no food to eat while working I’ve ended up doordashing food almost every night and eating really horribly which I’m planning to fix.

I haven’t had any sharp pains or any pain on the lower right end of my stomach so I don’t think it’s appendicitis and I’m still able to use the bathroom perfectly fine so I don’t think it’s a blockage or anything but I would love to get some help on this and see what people think it could be.

Hey guys, Im 21M and my girlfriend is 20F. We are in a good relationship for over 2 years now however it is long distance and recently we were struggling due to personal problems and things have felt super dry together. I've been close friends with this other girl who I used to have strong feelings for years ago but never dated and I don't have any of those feelings for anymore.

We were talking over text the other night and she started flirting with me and saying she wanted to have s** with me, I was being an idiot and said it back to her and said that I would if I wasn't with my girlfriend. After that we stopped talking and instantly I felt extreme guilt and regretted everything I said to her and told her today that we should never talk like that again and that I need to remain loyal to my girlfriend.

My girlfriend never found out about this and me and this other girl never sent any sort of images to each other or actually planned on doing anything like that with each other but I still am unsure if i actually cheated or not on my girlfriend. Would you consider this cheating and should I tell my girlfriend about this or just keep it to myself since nothing actually happened and I swear to myself to never do something like that again.

I love my girlfriend with all my heart and I made a terrible choice that I am regretting so much right now and I feel that telling her would ruin things between us. Any help is greatly appreciated thank you for taking the time to read this.

TL;DR I sent sexual texts to another girl while in a 2 year relationship and instantly regretted it without anyone finding out. Should i tell my girlfriend about this and is what I did considered cheating even though it was a super quick chat and no images were sent or plans actually made.