u/Malpicx

I (27M) have been with my girfriend (24F) for 3 months and I’m currently on a trip in so we haven’t been able to talk as much. We still spoke through call twice a day and texted in between. Two days ago while talking I could tell she was sad/angry, when I asked her about it she just said she was sad and nothing else. When she finally opened up she told me that I had forgotten about her, didn’t care about her and never called.

I asked why she felt that and she stayed silent, I told her, that I cared about her, missed her every day and loved her with all my heart, still no answer. So I explained why I didn’t feel it that way(that we had talked everyday, twice, etc.) and that I felt we had talked enough she only answered with “ok”, “whatever”, “sure” in sarcastic tone.

I became frustrated and told her I didn’t understand what she expected me to do, how often she walked to talk, to tell me what her expectations were, and once again told her that for me we had been talking

That’s when she said she didn’t give a shit about what I thought, that these past months had been a waste of time. I told her to please don’t say those things because they were hurtful, to which she answered “good” and then said we should end things. At that moment I wanted to talk it out and told her so, but she said she had to leave and to not call her.

I texted her right away saying I wanted to talk it out and fix everything, that she was importan to me and was worth it. After this happened I talked about it with my older sister (30F) and began to wonder if it was worth trying.

24h later she texted that she wanted to talk, that was sorry and wanted to fix things. I still see the great person she is and the good things the relationship had, but she said things to purposefully hurt me, what if this is a glimpse of how things will be in the future?

AITBF for emphasizing why I felt we had been talking and now not knowing if I want to fix things after the first fight?