u/MamaMiaOhNo

hello internet! i, 16f, applied for a job that my ex, 18m, works at. yes, very stupid decision, but i've applied practically everywhere in my town and now i'm branching out to nearby cities. my ex sexually assaulted me my freshman and his junior year and while i have worked out my feelings in therapy, i'm concerned he will bring it up. i have an interview on tuesday and i need the money, but i want advice on what i should do in the event i'm (hopefully) hired. do i reach out to him and ask him to pretend like nothing ever happened?

edit: spelling mistake

hello! i got a ureteroscopy to remove 3 stones all around 7mm in my left, lower pole. i have an external stent still in place getting removed friday (its monday), and my kidney HURTS. ive taken all the meds they gave me and i am still in so much pain. peeing doesn't hurt anymore, it is just my kidney. should i call the urologist or is this normal? (im a woman if this helps)