u/MamaMoMo2020

My wife & I have been together for a while (8yrs), and after much therapy, she admitted she is no longer interested in having sex w/ me or anyone else. At her encouragement, I’m considering connecting with other people to get those needs met.

Does anyone have tips/experience pursuing a casual sexual relationship w/ someone, while married? I’m skittish about going on apps because I am from a small-ish queer community, and our child is school age. My wife & I were openly poly before we met, and the stigma is still intense!

But I swear I’m cute & fun…albeit rusty. Maybe dating won’t be as bad as it was when I was single & childless? 😬😂