r/lesbianpoly

I 23/F Have two romantic interests and I can’t decide between them, 22/F and I have been talking for a few months and I really like her because she’s kind and funny, I’ve been thinking about this for a while and have come to the conclusion I may be Poly. One of my interests (22/F) has been asking where we stand romantically and told her I still like 24/M but also like her. I would like to ask both of them to be in a polyamorous relationship with me but I don’t know how to go about it. Any advice?
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**TL;DR;** :How do I ask my two romantic interests to be in a polyamorous relationship?

Just curious how common either option is in the lesbian poly community

It seems I always attract more men than women that want to talk to me. I’d love to make more female friends. I’m 36 F from the PNW. I’m also bisexual and just fun to be around and talk to. I love music, movies, true crime documentaries, hanging out with friends, “wine tasting”, being around water. I’m open minded when it comes to a lot of things.. hit me up and I’ll try not to disappoint and be an amazing friend.

have always seemed to attract men on here and never got the opportunity to talk to some women 😋

if you are bold, know how to hold a conversation, and are intriguing, please dm me and we can see where things go :)

i need people that can hold my interest and match my energy

Researchers at James Cook University are seeking participants for an anonymous online study examining attraction, dating preferences, and partner evaluation.

As part of the study, you will view a series of fictional dating profiles and answer questions about attraction and relationship preferences. The findings will contribute to a better understanding of how people evaluate potential romantic partners.

To participate, you must be 18 years of age or older and identify as heterosexual, gay, or lesbian. The survey takes approximately 10–15 minutes to complete and is completely anonymous and voluntary.

We recognise the diversity of the LGBTQIA+ community. While the current study is limited to heterosexual, gay, and lesbian participants, it forms part of a broader research program that has included, and will continue to include, people of diverse sexual orientations and gender identities.

This study forms part of a Doctor of Philosophy research project at James Cook University and has been approved by the Human Research Ethics Committee at James Cook University (HREC Approval No. 25H-0225).

For more information, please contact Kaitlyn Gregory at kaitlyn.gregory@my.jcu.edu.au.

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