situationship with my friend??
Ok so I am a rising hs junior and I have this friend who I have known since freshman year, and we play on the school soccer team together. We were like acquaintances freshman year, but we got like really close sophomore year. She’s amazing and is so funny and sweet, she shares my political views, and she’s just like my person. I kinda realized I had a crush on her like in Oct/november of last year, and I kinda go obsessed with her but I knew it wouldn’t work, and bc she had a bf in Oct, and then they had a messy breakup so I was like not trying to get into that. But anyways it’s summer now ofc and she’s like been wayyy more talkative with me and responding really fast, and like asking if I’m going to lifts for soccer and stuff. Well, a couple days ago we were talking and I mentioned I was born in a different country, and she like didn’t know and I joked like oh you know nothing about me, and we like went back and fourth and eventually I was like ok well I was born in that country, and she said “well now I know. I won’t forget.” LIKE WTFFF THATS SO FLIRTYY??! And thennnn she sent me a text this morning and said she had a DREAM with me in it, and that it was basically like us going to get pizza and she was driving and fell asleep at the wheel and I got mad at her, which is random but like a dream?? How is that platonic? And I was joking like oh you would never drive me anywhere tho bc she hates driving to my house and she sent like hehehe and then said “not true”. Like am I being truly psychopathic crazy or is she trying to flirt with me. She has also said stuff before like about hating men, one time she said like “I can’t see myself with a man long term”, and a couple weeks ago we had a convo about me being bi bc she knows I am, and we were talking about like coming out and I was saying like I don’t think I ever will, and she was like saying “is that what you want tho?” And she seemed veryyy interested in the topic like. If I’m crazy then so be it but like she has to be doing something right???