My Husband 22 M wants to divorce me 22 F and I don't want to
My husband 22(M) wants a divorce. We've been married for almost two years and he is the love of my life and I don't see myself moving on with anyone else ever.
He wants to divorce because he feels betrayed about my sexual past that I had lied about when we started dating because 1. I was ashamed and it was a very low point in my life, and 2. i didn't want to hurt him, i thought it was best if i kept it all to myself and just lived with it and moved on with it that it would be better for us and our relationship. Well... that did not go as planned and I should have just been honest from the start, I know, a big fuck up. He went through my phone a few months back and found out about an additional sexual encounter i had with a partner i had been sleeping with off and on that I didn't orginally tell him about and he wanted to leave me then, we worked past it and decided to stay together and that it wasn't a super big deal, well current day, a few weeks ago he went through my dead ipad that we DO NOT USE, he went and found the ipad, charged it and started to go through and try and find messages back from before we started dating about two guys that I was with before him and had encounters with. It was awful, we talked a lot, i owned up to all mistakes, we kinda decided to work on stuff and stay together and he told me he wants to talk and work on stuff and be together, but now present day, he erupts on me when he gets home from work on how he doesn't want to be with me anymore and all his anger is pent up and he thinks about what he saw and found out daily that he just erupted and couldn't handle it anymore. we genuinely do love eachother a lot and had an awesome life so far, we've built amazing memories together, planned a life, have a house together, literally everything and now he's telling me he's beginning to hate me and doesn't want to be with me anymore and does not want to try and work on anything anymore even though we were already trying. i'm tired, i'm sad, i love him and i know i fucked up, i just miss my best friend and i love him and i want to be with him forever. i suggested maybe we separate for a little bit and see if we can build a longing for eachother that maybe that'll help, but idk. i just want my best friend back and i want to make him feel as loved as i wish he did. please be kind, this is super hard for me and I really just want some advice on how to talk to him and what to do, because in my heart i believe he's just being mean to me because he doesn't know what else to do, he keeps saying he loves me and wants to be with me but doesn't know how to work past this.
TL;DR: Husband and wife are fighting about her sexual past and husband now doesn't want to work past it even though he said he would. She wants advice because she loves him and she's owned up to lying and her mistakes.