u/Material_Wallaby_193

I [50M] was in a serious monogamous marriage for 13 years. My, now ex-wife went hard-core Christian on me and felt I wasn't spiritual enough and disappeared one day.

These monogamous relationships are not working for me. I've been single a lot. That's not for me. I am a provider and stable. But I meet someone and ask about their thoughts on poly relationships that immediately ends the dating thing.

So how does one, myself, approach the topic of polyamorous relationships?

How does one find someone best suited for that lifestyle without getting the drink in the face? I'm at a loss. Any help is appreciated.