How do you politely untangle shared subscriptions after a breakup?
This feels like such a stupidly small thing to be stuck on after a breakup, but here I am.My ex still uses my Netflix. It’s under my email, but he’s had his own profile on it for almost two years. He also sent me money for it a few times last year, so for some reason I feel weird just changing the password without saying anything.
There’s also a shared Google Photos album from two trips we took together. I don’t really want to sit there sorting through old photos right now, but I also don’t know if deleting/removing stuff without warning is a bad move.The breakup wasn’t horrible. No cheating, no screaming, nothing dramatic. Just sad and awkward. That’s probably why I’m overthinking this instead of just cutting everything off.Would it be too cold to just change the Netflix password and remove him from the album? Or should I send a short message first like, “Hey, I’m going to separate some account stuff this weekend, just wanted to give you a heads-up”?I don’t want to reopen a whole conversation, but I also don’t want to be unnecessarily harsh over something as dumb as a subscription.