u/Mazy_keen

▲ 0 r/Bumble

You need a minimum MINIMUM 3 photos. We need to build a mental picture of you. We can not do this with 2 pictures.

Your photos should all look like the same version of the same person.

Photos with a long unkempt beard, clean shaven then scruff... we don't know who we are meeting. If you just like the photos... note your current style. I have PTSD with a full beard, they get blocked. I love scruff. Preferably use current photos. Especially if there has been weigh loss. Facial hair and weight can completely change the way you look.

Photos with dark hair then light brown then shaven... we don't know who we are meeting. These photos are obviously not new... or all of them aren't. I block and move on. It took 1 date. Pictures he had thick drown hair, showed up grey. I still would have accepted the date with grey... but if you lie about this from the beginning, what can we expect moving forward?

Please attempt a smile in one photo. 6 photos of the same selfie pose and a scowl... this is who we expect to meet... or really choose NOT to meet.

I have posted this in comments many times but I will add it here. Be truthful about your height. I am 5'8" I will accept dates with guys my height and a bit shorter. If you lie and say you are 5'8" and obviously aren't when you show up... nice meeting you, I can't trust you.

*MY INFO* I am 46f married 23 years divorced 6 just stared OLD. I am 2 weeks in on Bumble & have been setting 3 dates a week trying to meter my matches.

I will like bios but if I can't get a clear picture of you from your pictures... I move on. If you can't take the time to post more than a few pictures... I move on.

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u/Mazy_keen — 14 days ago