What to do with a regular who majorly overstepped?
I work as a bartender at a small local restaurant. I have a regular who honestly funds my whole life. The restaurant is really only busy on weekends, but the bartenders always make good money. This regular comes in often, for all of the employees not just me. They have always been respectful, they are super wealthy. Like might be doing something shady level of wealthy. They are regularly leaving 100+ dollar tips every time they come in. So my regular always gets a little flirty when they get a few drinks in them, but nothing I am not used to as a female bartender. Now, this time they tried to offer me $5000 to go home with them. They waiting until everyone had left, I am the only one locking up, to ask me this. It was on instagram, but within minutes of leaving and their business that they went back to is right next door. HE ALSO KNOWS MY BOYFRIEND!!! It made me feel incredibly uncomfortable, but I know the other bartenders are going to want him to still come in. What in the hell do I do?