Some cancers are like cancer for scorpios
Hello, dear Scorpios,
Wanted to share a few thoughts and hear your opinion on a matter, which is the following: some cancer fellows, especially men from my experience, close aquaitance's experiences and from what I have read here and on other social platforms or forums.
Some uneovolved cancer men can be extremely manipulative, let's start with that. The level of drama, gaslighting when they just EXIST and wait for the world to be grateful that they are alive, is insane! They act like once you chose them and they are your partner, they can do whatever the f*ck they want and if you don't love them changed, unaware of relationship, house, children responsabilities, sometimes even verbally abusive (yelling and calling names), and even complete disregard of their own person, lack of hygiene, then you are the bad guy.
Some cancer men expect, even demand for you to love them at their abosolute worst which can go on for years. And if you dare to get tired, dare to want more from life, dare to not want to live like that, they will tell anyone who will listen that you are a bad person/girlfriend/wife/mother, that he was like that because of you, because you didn't frea*king sang a song to him to ask him nicely to take out the garbage while you were running all day long to take care of the house/kids/food/yourself.
The lack of accountability is beyond reason with some of these guys. They will say whatever it takes, lie how much is needed so they can continue to be the "good guys", "the good boys" who only wanted to make things work.
Has anyone had a similar experience with cancer men? I have separated last week from my cancer husband who is, as I have described above, and I could use some other experiences, stories and advice.