when younger sibling is bullying the older one?
ive spent more time with my sister (who is half my age) than my parents have in these few years bc they were so busy with other stuff.
They finally have time for her but theyre in their 50s and too exhausted to raise a 12 year old girl.
This means for some reason ive turned into my younger sister’s (and family’s tbh) punching bag.
Im pretty sure she’s autistic or nureodivergent bc i am too. I take rejection really badly. She’s always too much. Shes so much like me that I don’t know why she can’t accept me.
My mom does not care if my younger sister throws her garbage at me, spits at me, uses swear words or insults me.
I get called a psychopath, a bitch, a fat piece of shit. Etc.
It’s like she doesn’t understand why it’s wrong to be rude because people on tv are rude and it’s fine.
Even if i get angry quickly and did fight back, 3 years have passed and honestly. I believe Ive learned to let it go and try to move on. (My parents dont think so. They think i get angry at her too quickly)
However I still get moments of pure anger where I can’t handle being disrespected by her. I do slap her. I do yell at her. But i never swear or insult her. I am in the wrong and am not trying to be biased but I stg the most I tell her is that shes ill-mannered.
My parents don’t care. Since im the oldest they see it as my fault. That im starting shit. I cry. I beg them to listen to me but they don’t care.
They hate being parents and its obvious to everyone.
My family doesn’t even realize that this is the biggest reason why im planning on leaving them and immigrating to a different country as soon as I can.