u/MentionMiserable4345

I’m a fairly muscular dude (translation; I’ve got cake) and also have a fair bit of body hair in the booty crack region. This time of year in my region is disgustingly hot and humid and my butt crack is never dry. Sweat stays there all day and even after I shower it stays damp. Suggestions from anybody?

On the outside, I seem like a really healthy guy. In fact, I’m very gifted intellectually and athletically. At a deeper level though, I have a minimum of three inherited genetic conditions that can only be managed, not cured. They’ve come to light as I approach thirty, and, not to be dramatic, they kind of make my life a logistical nightmare. I basically just wait for one of the conditions to flare up and incapacitate me for a week. It’s a terrible way to live, not knowing which plans I’ll have to cancel at the last second, going to work in pain, or just feeling like a truck ran over me in the night.

My wife and I have a daughter, and we used to talk about wanting 4 or even 5 children, but lately I don’t even want to have one more child. Beyond just feeling like I can barely be a dad due to my health, I would really hate to pass these disorders on to a child. My wife of course knows about my health, and the high likelihood that our kids will inherit the problem. She doesn’t understand what weight I feel though, living with this day to day. I know she’ll be heartbroken, and I just don’t want to have this conversation. I know it’s a long shot, but are there any people here who have had to have a similar talk?

I know this is a stupid complaint but I’m so tired of pulling out when my wife and I have sex. We are waiting a bit to have our second child, and she really doesn’t want to take BC because of her past negative experiences. I don’t blame her at all, but honestly having enjoyed sex without pulling out during the time we were trying to get pregnant, it just isn’t the same now. It’s actually stressful to know that I’ve gotta mentally stay super aware of where things are at because I need to pull out. That’s all.