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Lip blush healing questions

Hi! I got Vintage Maroon done on my lips a week ago today. If it never changed from this point on I would still be happy with it (seriously, the border definition alone is everything, my lips don't disappear when I smile anymore) but I am hoping it will fade/warm a little. It peeled day 2-4 and has just been tight/chapped/tender/slightly sandpaper-y since then. I was told to expect a "ghosting" phase around day 5, where the pigment fades so much I would "wonder what I even did this for," and then the final colour would come back and settle within a couple of weeks.

My issue is that it's still quite dark and cooler/more purple toned than I expected. It doesn't look bad--just too cool for my skin tone, and dark enough that I can't get away with no other makeup or I look unbalanced (it looks darker in person than in the photo). Not the end of the world as it's still a vast improvement to my invisible lips before and I seldom leave the house without makeup anyway. But I am wondering why it hasn't faded, and if some of the coolness is possibly just residual bruising and I can expect it to warm up a bit?

Anyone have a similar trajectory to mine who can chime in?

u/Mesmerotic31 — 9 days ago

Brief Elgin thoughts and a theory

First, I'm so proud of my boy. He's just a kid who made a couple of stupid mistakes, but everything he did was out of a sincere desire to help. And in the end, he stuck to his values, even when it meant his death--no selling out to the devil, no betraying the other residents. He sacrificed the promise of his own safety, accepted his fate, and went down leaning on his faith to stay resilient in his choice. He's a good egg, even if he was a frustrating one.

Second, I think he's gonna play a significant part in season 5, at least for a couple episodes. It doesn't seem coincidental that MIY/Sophia said they could only take on forms of dead former residents, and then specifically demanded Clara conceal evidence of Elgin's death/get rid of the body. MIY's gonna hijack Elgin to win some trust and do some damage. I hope this is the route because it'll be fun seeing Elgin's actor take on a villain role after we've grown so accustomed to his sincerity.

Sorry if this has been discussed already--I left the sub when S4 was released to avoid spoilers and just rejoined now that I've binged it on my mgm+ free trial, so I've missed a lot of discussion I'm sure!

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u/Mesmerotic31 — 3 months ago

Master List of Questions

Is there one or should we start one here?

What are the specific questions we need season 5 to answer? Which little mysteries have yet to be solved? What plot points were abandoned and need resolution?

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u/Mesmerotic31 — 3 months ago

Stanford 10 testing questions

My daughter is taking the 5th grade Stanford 10 online this upcoming week. I'm trying to figure out what is and isn't allowed and not finding the info I need, so if anyone here has experience please share!

  1. Is it monitored, like over zoom or video? My child often needs me to read the questions out loud (she's a fantastic reader in general, like when reading books, but she's an audio learner) and often draws blanks when she has to read the question herself. Am I allowed to read the questions out loud to her?

  2. Am I allowed to re-state them (without giving any hints) if the wording is confusing or will this disqualify us? We have been going over the practice work book and some of the questions are phrased in ways she finds hinderingly confusing. If I re-state it in a slightly clearer way she gets it and can solve them easily, but I am now becoming aware of the fact that her test question comprehension doesn't match her generally good understanding of the content.

I think I may have messed up along the way by always being available to explain a confusing question to her when we do our home lessons instead of making her figure it out on her own. Additionally, she is in 4th grade by age but we are working a year ahead, so even though she has mastered the content, her test-question reading comprehension is younger than a typical 5th grader taking this test.

Just having some anxiety and feeling like I have done her a disservice. She is super bright and understands everything she has learned easily, but definitely struggles with the wording when left to her own devices, and I'm afraid I've set her up to fail.

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Edit: we have spent the last couple hours with her reading the questions to herself. She has shown some improvement but she gets caught on certain things.

Example question: "Jeremiah has a photograph that measures 5"x7". He wants to frame the photograph using a 3-inch mat. What size picture frame will Jeremiah need to accommodate the photograph and mat?"

She read it over and over and ended up in tears because she didn't understand what "mat" meant in this context, so I had to explain it was a border around a picture, but she still had no real-life context to compare it to so she had a ton of trouble visualizing it.

And then another question assumed life experience that again she didn't have--it asked if the goal lines on a football field were parallel, perpendicular, etc., but she's never seen a game of football in her life and didn't know what a goal line meant or looked like.

Or another question that was like "Maria has 48 acres and wants to place fencing around each quarter acre. How many sections will she need to purchase fencing for?" And she read it several times not understanding until I rephrased it as "Maria has 48 acres. Each acre is split into quarters for fencing. How many quarter acres does she need to purchase fencing for?" and suddenly it clicked, just with the slightest re-wording in a way she found a little more intuitive. Simple things like that which for some reason trip her up.

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u/Mesmerotic31 — 3 months ago

Finally made labneh--best low cal "cream cheese" ever

It was so easy. I got one of those little 5.3oz cups of plain unsweetened yogurt (Ellenos), mixed in a pinch of salt and garlic powder, spooned it into cheesecloth over a strainer, and refrigerated it overnight.

I have been a Laughing Cow Creamy Light girl for years so I stacked them up nutritionally per 150g-- labneh wins out with fewer calories and less fat and sodium, and it *tastes exponentially better*. It's so thick and creamy, like a sliiiightly tangier cream cheese, and felt extremely decadent on my tongue--richer and less plastic-y than Laughing Cow. I honestly think I am never going back. The flavour opportunities are endless.

(The yogurt barely loses any weight after straining, maybe a half a tsp of liquid, and adding salt of course adds sodium, but that difference is still huge!)

You could make it lighter using nonfat yogurt but I imagine it would change the flavour/texture too much. It's absolutely perfect as is.

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Nutritional comparison:

Ellenos yogurt, 150g: 150cal, 7g fat, 13g protein, 95mg sodium

Laughing Cow, 150g: 200cal, 12g fat, 16g protein, 1275mg sodium

Light cream cheese, 150g: 375cal, 32g fat, 11g protein, 650g sodium

Cream cheese, 150g: 525cal, 53.5g fat, 11g protein, 480mg sodium

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u/Mesmerotic31 — 5 months ago

So since last summer I've been having great success (meaning after years of trying the scale FINALLY started moving lol). I was eating 1200, doing the elliptical for 60 minutes a day, and losing about 3lbs a month. Lost 18lbs over 6 months and I was ecstatic. I was intermittent fasting, eating super high protein and fiber, and never hungry.

Then in March I got two head colds in a row and herniated a disc and then got a stomach bug, all overlapping each other, lasting over a period of six weeks. By that point I had only missed 3 days at the gym since Thanksgiving, so not going to the gym for 6 weeks in a row was devastating.

For the first bit when I couldn't taste anything I lived off of keto toast, soup, and protein cereal. Then my appetite returned and I started feeling ravenously hungry all day long even eating all the same things I used to. This was weird because I was so much more sedentary than I'd been in months.

Needless to say I gained back 7lbs in this time. I have finally gotten mostly better enough to return to the gym, and I've only been able to manage 30-45 minutes at a time with breaks. I can feel my appetite slowly getting back under control and I'm hopeful I will be able to do my usual hour again soon and stop feeling so insatiably hungry.

What is even with that? Why is my appetite smaller and I am more satisfied with less food when I do a ton of cardio than when I'm lying around all day?!?

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u/Mesmerotic31 — 6 months ago