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Bottle refusal at the worst time. Has anyone tried cold turkey?

My 5 month old suddenly stopped taking bottles at 4 months. Before that she was taking them 3-5x a week no problem. I was mostly breastfeeding because it was honestly just easier and my supply wasn't great when I pumped. Bottles were used when I had to go out without issue. I didn't realise that could change or I would've been more consistent

We took a 2 day trip where no bottles were given and since then… complete strike. She used to at least take one from my husband at night in deep sleep but even that stopped this week.

The ONLY thing that works now is a Tommee Tippee 3 month nipple, in her bouncer in the morning, when she's happy and not too hungry or tired. Even then it's maybe 4 out of 7 days depending on her mood. We've tried everything: different bottles, nipples, temps, positions, me out of the house, others giving it, you name it.

Had to switch to combo feeding with formula too because I was pumping and losing milk and it was making everything worse mentally.

Here's my problem: I have a trip in 6 weeks to care for my sick mother in another country. I'll be gone for one week. Taking the baby isn't an option. I'll be alone and in and out of hospitals. My plan was to leave a pumped stash and have her on combo feeding while I'm away.

Two friends have told me their babies refused bottles until they went back to work and then just… took them out of hunger. I'm hoping for the same but I'm terrified.

I'm considering going cold turkey a week or two before I leave to test this out— no breastfeeding, bottle only. But I'm worried it'll stress her out and make her even more breast-fixated.

Has anyone actually done cold turkey and had it work? Or am I about to make this worse? Any experience with leaving a bottle-refusing baby would honestly help right now

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u/Miawallace1993 — 10 hours ago

First time in Baku

Hi friends,

I'll be visiting Baku soon with my 5 month old baby. I want to be culturally appropriate during my stay and had a few Qs I'm hoping you could help me navigate:

  1. Is breastfeeding in public (parks, malls, cafes) okay? Ofcourse, I'll be wearing a nursing cover that will cover everything, but just wanted to make sure this is generally considered acceptable. Unfortunately, my baby has been rejecting her bottle so that's not really an option for me. And I wouldn't want to spend most of my time worrying about rushing back to the hotel when she needs a feed.

  2. Are shorts and knee-length summer dresses appropriate for women? we'll be visiting towards the end of June.

Not culturally related but:

  1. Will it be too hot to walk around Nizami St/ the Promenade with my baby during the day? Google is showing it'll be between 27-30 degrees. Is that reflective of the "feels like" temperature and wind etc?

Thanks a lot in advance for your help! So excited to visit your beautiful country soon x

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u/Miawallace1993 — 19 days ago