How do you handle overly sensitive students?
I (26 male), am teaching 11th grade English and I’m been having trouble with this group of students since my second week of school. It always happens whenever my mentor teacher leaves the room (which is a lot) and they are supposed to do group work.
First, it started when they asked about my love life and I kindly told them that’s private information. They laughed and explicitly speculated about my bedroom activities. I get that they were trying to test me and tried brushing it off, but it was deeply unsettling. We never had spoken about their teacher like that when I was their age.
Afterwards, the next day I caught them cursing and saying racial slurs every in every sentence. When I calmly and directly told them we don’t do that in class, they got upset for me butting their conversation. But I can literally hear them from across the room. Their leader really took it personally as afterwards threatens accusations and called me racist (they’re Hispanic & I’m white passing). When I was literally making common sense corrections.
I eventually talked to my mentor teacher about it and he gave me the choice to either ignore it or have her speak with a counselor. He was leaning towards the former and made it seem like it’s something you just have to ignore but the behavior was getting awkward looks from students who weren’t acting out and so I thought it was best to clamp down on the issue.
Ever since then air has been pretty tense. The behavior has stopped and I’ve just handed them work, but going beyond that with offering help or looking it I fear they’ll just erupt. Making it quite noticeable when compared to the rest of the class.