I’m starting to think users don’t actually remember how they use products
Not in a dishonest way. More like… our brains quietly rewrite the story afterward.
We saw something recently where users kept saying they “always use search.” Confidently. No hesitation. But analytics showed the actual search feature barely got touched.
Turns out they were mostly using Cmd+F in the browser and mentally grouping that into “search.”
And honestly, the more I think about it, the more I wonder how often this happens.
Someone says onboarding was smooth because they eventually figured it out after 20 minutes of confusion. Someone says a dashboard feels intuitive because they’ve memorized it after six months. Someone says they “never had issues” while actively avoiding half the product.
Makes me think qualitative research and analytics aren’t really competing truths. They’re measuring two completely different things.
One measures what people believe their experience was.
The other measures what actually happened while their coffee was getting cold and Slack was pinging them every 14 seconds.
And weirdly… I think both are important.
Because products fail from reality sometimes.
But they also fail from perception.
Curious if anyone else has had a moment where user memory and user behavior felt like two completely different universes.